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Archive for November, 2014

Disappointment- The Wonderful Stroke of Luck

Sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.”- Dalai Lama

Hello Fellow Followers! Disappointment in life is inevitable but what you do while experiencing disappoint can prove to be empowering should you choose to.

Here are a few quick tips from Lori Deschene –co-founder of Create your life story, on how you can bounce back from failure and turn it into success:

Define success on your own terms.

Failure is a subjective term. If you have very rigid ideas of what it means to succeed, you will often feel disappointed. If there’s one thing that’s certain in life, it’s that nothing is certain, so why pin your sense of self-worth to something that may or may not happen?

Find the value in failure.

If you’re looking for a job and you don’t ace an interview, you could either decide you failed at that interview, or you succeeded in learning something to help you in the next—which might be an even better opportunity than the one that just past.

Focus on the process, not the results.

Just because you didn’t reach a specific goal you set, that doesn’t mean you can’t still do what you’d like to do. It’s not over just because you didn’t create one specific outcome. The benefit of adopting a process-oriented approach is that it’s easier to be mindful when you focus on the action steps. This doesn’t mean you stop setting goals and measuring your progress toward them. It just means let each step fuel your sense of meaning, joy, and accomplishment.

Accept that it isn’t always personal.

As much as we’d like to believe hard works always pays off, sometimes there are things beyond our control that have nothing to do with what we did or didn’t do. This may be the reason a lot of people try and try again only to achieve the same results. We can always find room for improvement, but sometimes we need to accept that results aren’t always reciprocal to efforts. However, we increase our odds of creating results if we choose to move forward regardless.

Productivity- It’s Simple!

Greetings Fellow Followers! Today I’d like to chat with you about a problem that everyone runs into at some point- Productivity. No matter how much you like your job, there are certain factors that can prevent you from staying at maximum productivity throughout the whole day. And I’m going to let you in on a well known secret…A lack of productive focus ultimately leads to extra stress on yourself, missed deadlines, passed opportunities and even termination-Yikes

So, if you are someone who has trouble staying productive at work, here are five simple tips to help you reduce that.

  • Take regular breaks
  • Pace yourself and balance your workload
  • Put your work first
  • Don’t open browsers unless you need them
  • Try to be happy and optimistic


Things may come to those who wait, but only those things left by those who hustle.

-Abraham Lincoln